The Mending Spirit

 

CHARACTERISTICS OF THE
MENDING ARCHETYPE

 

  • Puts fragmented parts back together
  • Gets underneath the conflict, the wounds, the separate parts to find common ground
  • Cuts away rough edges so the new pieces can be joined evenly, without threads, tears or remnants hanging out
  • Binds up wounds so the edges can grow together and create a new reality to secure the continued existence for both parts
  • Weaves a new fabric from old threads. Mixes new colors from old
  • Seems the possibility of mending among people, parts, institutions, beliefs which the rest of us would never think of putting together
  • Finds his work, his location, his action everywhere the human condition is fragmented
  • Brings together for healing to begin


QUESTIONS TO DETERMINE IF, WHEN, AND WHY
THE MENDING SPIRIT SPEAKS TO YOU

 

  1. Do you feel compelled to bring the torn sides together? Who and what have you mended? Give the details. What were the occasions?
  2. Have you seen into a situation, seen how things might be brought together before they actually have?
  3. Do you have a desire to get underneath old wounds and tattered memories and ask, “What is this all about?”
  4. Have you brought together conflicted parts, binding them so they can no longer tear apart? What were they? What were the circumstances?
  5. Have you invited out new and alternative ways of living, being, and doing together? What were the circumstances? What was the result?